714. ‘Gender Differences’ Revisited — Group F

Differences in the sexes continue. Curious about the total, I number them.

1. A man wants his hut or castle outfitted for physical comfort. A woman wants her nest lined with emotional comfort.
2. The male nature competes first and cooperates when necessary. The female nature cooperates first and competes when necessary.  
3. A man thrives on a woman’s support and gratefulness for what he does, because he thinks he deserves it. A woman thrives on her man’s devoted attentions, because it confirms her value and self-love.
4. A man’s desire for his woman to maintain their home is much, much stronger than her natural objections. (But not her feminist objections or female-ego opposition.)
5. A man will call his hut a castle, if he’s treated as the king. A woman’s ego resists treating him that way, because she’s naturally driven to dominate her nest and their home.
6. When a woman wants comfort and understanding, she discloses to a specific man. When a man wants comfort and understanding, he does not disclose but turns to a woman.
7. Men have distinct missions in life. Women have life as their mission. 
8. Women want comfort and companionship in needy times and the future. Men want comfort daily after a hard day’s work.
9. A woman craves to associate closely with at least one strong, highly masculine figure. A man craves freedom, often temporarily from his woman.  
10. Love and sex are fine to a husband, but they are fillers rather than glue. Because it works for them, wives mistakenly think love and sex make relationship glue.

More to come.

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